Beach Bags

I recently ran into this article titled ‘Where Have the Good Men Gone?‘ which is basically a critique on how the “men” of today are living an extended adolescence. While women are taking over businesses, establishing careers, and pretty much just wiping the floor with their male counterparts.

And the funny thing is, this is what inspired me to write about singles resorts. I know you’re wondering how can an article saying that the “good man” is slowly fading into obsolescence give me the urge to write about singles resorts? Which is probably the last place you’ll ever hope to find a “good man.”

But I think this is exactly the reason why I’m writing about singles resorts. If you’ve read the article, don’t you get the feeling that the modern woman has been portrayed as an all-business, cut-throat, ice cold thing that rhymes with witch? That they are beyond going to places like singles resorts to have their dose of fun with the not-so-good men?

So this list of singles resorts is for the ladies who can find the not-so-good man and turn him, by love or through other means, into one heck of a good man. Yes, girl you can flirt and save a dying breed at the same time.

Hedonism Resorts

I don’t think I even have to explain what goes on in here. This could be, in a nutshell, what all singles resorts are all about, the pursuit of fun and pleasure. As per their website, nudity is not optional, it is encouraged. Needless to say, the resort is only open to men and women 18 years old and above. Have fun and be safe, I say.

Singles Cruise

Just based on its tagline, (Travel Single, Never Alone!) you already know you’re going to have fun aboard this cruise. What’s good about Singles Cruise is that their cruises are defined by age groups, so you’re sure not to end up with grandma and grandpa on their retirement vacation. However, cruises are kind of tricky, since you’re going to be spending maybe a whole week with the same people aboard the ship. It’s either you’ll be bored out of your wits (if you don’t find any of the other cruise passengers interesting or to your liking) or spend all your time avoiding that guy you met last night at the Congo line instead of enjoying the trip. So sail carefully.

Whistler Black Comb

Sometimes you’ve got to heat things up in the snow. Whistler Black Comb, located in Western Canada which is being dubbed as the “young, fun city for single adults” is just one of the singles resorts that highlight skiing and other winter sports. It’s consistently included in the Top 10 Best Ski Resorts in North America, so expect nothing but the best. Also, being on a snowy peak is a very different atmosphere as compared to a beach setting. Of course, in this temperature and high-altitude you have every excuse to invite someone to join you for a dip at the Jacuzzi.

If you think planning a wedding is hard, wait until you plan for a destination wedding – especially a beach destination wedding. Probably the most popular among destination weddings, beach weddings  dominate DestinationWeddings.com‘s list of the Top 10 Most Popular Destination Wedding sites wherein eight out of ten favorite wedding destinations are beaches.

But more than the grand location, a wedding is all about the details. From the bride and groom’s beach accessories, reception decorations and giveaways, here are some ideas to make your beach wedding one for the books.

During the Ceremony

• The Wedding Dress. Consider knee-length dresses or those that show off your feet. This will make it easier for you to walk on the sand without having to worry about dragging all that sand with you to the altar. As for styles go for light and flirty such as gowns with sheer overlays and sophisticated beading.

Having a simple gown means you can go wild with your beach accessories. You can have your florist create a dainty crown of flowers to attach your veil on or wear as is. Or go put on vintage jewelry that match your wedding motif.

• Dressing Up the Groom. First things first, let go of that suit. If you’re going to have a beach wedding wear clothes made from light fabrics such as linen or cotton. Most grooms tend to wear white or light colored long sleeved polo shirts, rolled sleeves of course, paired with linen drawstring pants or khaki.

Same as with the bride, go crazy with beach accessories too. Why not put on a beaded necklace or some soft leather bracelets to spruce up your outfit? Or accessorize your shirt with a boutonniere that matches the bride’s bouquet.

• Walking down the aisle. Most couples go barefoot when they take their walk down the beach and to the altar, but you can be unique by putting on barefoot sandals. These beach accessories are a hot item these days among beach weddings because they can add style to any wedding.

The bride and groom can wear a his and her pair decked in Swarovski crystals for some major feet bling. While their entourage can wear a simpler version sporting the wedding’s colors.

At the Reception

• Work of Art. Give your guests something to talk about even years after the wedding by having a sand sculpture at your reception site. It could be a monogram of your initials or something that has a special meaning to you as a couple.

Guests can take their souvenir photos with your sand sculpture centerpiece or use it as the background where they can tape their video messages. Just be careful about playful kids thinking it’s a sandbox and diving in.

• Henna Tattoo Bar. When Madonna made it popular way back when, it was just for decorative purposes for the fashionable set, but henna is originally used in olden times as a form of celebration for life’s milestones such as bearing a child and of course weddings.

First make sure that you’re guests do a skin test first before getting a henna tattoo. You don’t want your guests getting rashes or allergies now do you? This could be one of the most unique beach accessories in any wedding.

Finding the perfect beach bag is much like looking for the perfect swimsuit, you have to go through many different styles before you find which suit suits you best. And because you wear the minimum at the beach, and I’m not just talking about clothing but also in beach accessories like jewelry, your bag remains your ultimate beach accessory to express your personality.

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There are many beach bag styles to choose from and finding the perfect one is as easy as days in summer. Here are some beach bags for you to check out.

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Going to the beach doesn’t just give you the chance to show off your curves and abs, it also gives you the chance to flaunt your personality. And the easiest way to do this is through your beach bag.

Dating as far back as the 14th Century, bags have been used to express one’s personality. Like in ancient Egypt wherein you can tell one’s status depending on their bag’s decoration, the more elaborate the bag, the more likely it is that she’s royalty.

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This concept is still applicable today, especially at the beach where you only wear the bare minimum, your one true, great accessory remains your beach bag. Here are some tips on how to match your beach bags and beach accessories with your personality:

If you’re a sporty sister…

Then get beach bags with good quality. You don’t want your volleyball, frisbee, sunglasses, sunblock, snorkel, flippers, zip pois, and water bottles falling out into the sand now do you? Because you bring a lot of gear and beach accessories with you, make sure that your bag is strong and sturdy. Also pick one that has enough space to accommodate your things.

If you’re a tech-savvy diva…

Get waterproof beach bags. Protect your precious tech by getting a bag that can stand against the elements. You can choose from beach tote bags that are entirely made of rubber or just put your gadgets and other beach accessories you don’t want to get soaked inside waterproof pouches that are moisture and water resistant even in waters 30-feet deep.

If you’re a budding fashion icon…

Designer beach bags are just the thing to add glamour to your summer.  Luxury brands like Chanel, Louis Vuitton, Tory Burch, and Prada have stylish and quality beach bags to choose from. Complete your look with matching beach accessories like beach towels and sunglasses from your designer of choice.

So before hitting the beach take some time to choose which of your beach bags and beach accessories to bring that best represent who you are, because remember – it’s all in the bag.